Dating a thirty year old man

Hi all, This is my first post and I need some advice on how to handle this situation.

Over this summer, before my daughter starts sixth form college she has been working as a waitress at a pub, and is the youngest person working there - most others seem to be over the age of 20 from what she has told me, however I had no concerns as she is very mature and also looks far older than her age - at least 18/19.

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I realised from reading the messages on her phone that this was between her and one of the chefs in the pub where she works.Any advice on how to handle the situation, and what she and I should do would be greatly appreciated!I'm trying hard to think what I would do but I honestly don't know.If you believe ultimately she is safe and not coming to harm I would if you feel able, talk to her, voice your concerns but don't patronise or make demands, say you are there for her and she can always talk to you, etc etc which I'm sure you would anyway and it will either fizzle out or it could be that they are in fact suited etc.I am now in a long term relationship with someone 18years older than me and I can honestly say I am drawn to older men although why particularly I don't know, old head young shoulders maybe, not sure I've helped at all here but guess what I'm saying is I guess my mums hatred of him made me more determined to see him.

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